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Thursday, August 12, 2010

16- and 17- weeks

So I’m a little behind on my blogging. Rather than making a 16-week post and throwing it up on my blog in the hopes that no one notices it wasn’t there a week ago, I’ve decided to combine them into two posts.

I got home from some professional development today, caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror, and though “woah, I look pregnant today!” so here’s a picture. For those of you who don’t see me regularly, here’s what I’m looking like these days.

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(17 weeks, 2 days)

(this picture is like a Where’s Waldo game… Can you find the… dead plant? picture frame still holding the fake-people-photo? I bet if I hadn’t pointed that out you’d never have seen that stuff!)

 

Pretty much just me… with a bit of a baby belly!

My weight is still on track. I originally lost 5 pounds (nausea and such), and I’ve gained it all back, putting my net weight gain at 0. Love that! I’ll probably stop posting weight updates sometime soon – haha!

Okay, so last Tuesday we hit the 16-week mark. Here are the details on that milestone:

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How your baby's growing:

Get ready for a growth spurt. In the next few weeks, your baby will double his weight and add inches to his length. Right now, he's about the size of an avocado: 4 1/2 inches long (head to rump) and 3 1/2 ounces. His legs are much more developed, his head is more erect than it has been, and his eyes have moved closer to the front of his head. His ears are close to their final position, too. The patterning of his scalp has begun, though his locks aren't recognizable yet. He's even started growing toenails. And there's a lot happening inside as well. For example, his heart is now pumping about 25 quarts of blood each day, and this amount will continue to increase as your baby continues to develop.

 

 

And now for week 17:

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How your baby's growing:

Your baby's skeleton is changing from soft cartilage to bone, and the umbilical cord — her lifeline to the placenta — is growing stronger and thicker. Your baby weighs 5 ounces now, and she's around 5 inches long from head to bottom. She can move her joints, and her sweat glands are starting to develop.

 

 

 

 

 

Okay hold the phone. An onion? I can go to my cabinet right now and find three onions that are drastically different sizes. In fact, I just did that and snapped a picture… but then I realized 2 of the onions had gone bad and I feel weird posting pictures of rotten onions (even if you couldn’t tell in the photo!). But you know what I’m saying, right? Onions vary considerably and I think that’s a crappy depiction of how big/small my baby is. Silly.

Cravings

Still loving coke Icees. :) Man, those things are good.

And vinegar.

No, not together. Ew!

I just like a nice basic salad with some olive oil and vinegar. Lots of vinegar. Then more salad. And more vinegar. And then a homemade marinated cucumber (in vinegar). And some garden tomatoes… with balsamic vinegar. (Hang on… I’m getting hungry… I need to go make a snack…)

Hair

I’ve heard from other new moms that a neat part of pregnancy happens to your hair. I’m not sure what it is with body changes, but similarly to hair-changes after chemo, many women experience changes in their hair during pregnancy. Some people get curly hair, some curls go straight, some people just get weird kinky waves. None of these have happened to me… yet.

I’ve recently been told that my hair would stop falling out. You know how you lose a few strands here and there, just general shedding? I was thrilled to find out this would stop and my hair would get even more luxurious and thick over the next few months. Unfortunately… this hasn’t really happened. Mine seems to be falling out more than ever which is somehow more bothersome than before. This might, however, be related to my next comment…

Another weird pregnancy fact is that no one is really sure what the impact of hair color is on a developing fetus. Rather than getting my usual highlights and all over base color I decided to scale back and just get a few highlights and a quick color wash. So a few weeks ago I made an appointment with my amazing stylist (the incredible Lauren at Belleza – I’d love her even if she wasn’t family!). Unfortunately, my hair has not gotten curly or straight(er), but rather has taken on some chemical changes. Within about five minutes of the bleach being strategically placed on my highlights, my whole head started burning… my hair was steaming… and the foils were so hot Lauren burned her finger. Weird! Needless to say we washed the color out as quickly as possible and will not be taking this approach until well after the baby arrives.

Baths

This may sound weird, but I miss taking a bath! That was one of my evening luxuries every now and then. I know some of you are thinking that I’m foolish to not just hop in, but with so many doctors in the family I’m erring on the side of caution. Most docs say baths are fine as long as they’re lukewarm or don’t get warmer than your body temp… but who wants to take a bath that cold? No way! I’m all about taking a bath that’s so hot I can only step in with one foot at a time (like the proverbial frog who adjusts to the rising temperature slowly and suddenly finds himself immersed in boiling water – that sounds heavenly!). So… no baths. I’ll just indulge in a pedicure (with the warm foot bath) every few weeks and try to use that as my pampering fix.

Birthing Plan

Bronce and I are still discussing the details of a birthing plan. I’m pushing for natural birth – he’s holding out until I provide him with more information and rationale for that decision. I think we’re a long way from making a decision about that. I got the name of a highly-recommended doula who works in the labor & delivery area at UT and we plan to talk to her soon about our options and her experience.

Well… school starts next week on the day I hit my 18-week mark. I hate to say that’s going to be a late post,  but unless I get it done the night before (unlikely!) it’s probably not going to be on time either. I know I have a few more pregnancy details I wanted to write about but they’re slipping my mind. Pregnancy brain has hit full force! I can barely remember my own cell number anymore…

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

It’s a Bloggity World

Here are the blogs I promised in a previous post. I have them divided into categories to make the browsing and reading a little easier... It's unlikely you care about the topics I use, but I'll list them anyway... **ps… if I’m not reading your blog it’s probably because I don’t know about it! Leave the link in the comments below!

Christianity - where I store the blogs for Priscilla Shirer, Beth Moore, Joel Rosenberg, and John Piper along with other Christians I enjoy reading from and about

Desiring God Blog

Baby Bangs

Joel Rosenberg's Weblog

Going Beyond Ministries blogs

Living Proof Ministries Blog

Randy Alcorn's blog

Mark Driscoll's blog

the Journey

Living Proof - Beth Moore

Kay Arthur

Friends - I have about 20 personal friends who update their blogs anywhere from daily, weekly, to... well I even have a friend who created a blog and has yet to write a single entry. You know who you are... and you're a talented writer, so get to it girl!

AshleyMalone :: current projects

AshleyMalone :: design inspiration

AshleyMalone :: photo o/t moment

AshleyMalone :: pieces

BabyNeely

Charity, Family, Friends & Life

Greg Pinkner

Jen Pinkner

Kerry White

Lindsay Marie as Mommy

Love that passes knowledge

Naked Personalities

New Mercies for You!

News From The Kovach Family!

Puncochars

supa blogga supreme mama

The Happy Envelope

the pirate monk

This High Calling

Veritas et Libertas (de oppresso liber)

walking by faith

You Know Me

Hobbies - this is a list of two blogs: knoxify is an interesting blog about Knoxville... digital photography school is the primary place i go to learn about my craft - it's a phenomenal site with great articles and outstanding forum contributors

Home/DIY – this is the longest list, by far. I subscribe to tons of before and after blogs, diy stuff, and personal blogs written by women who do lots of projects around their homes. It’s a source of tons of inspiration.

a penny saved...

A Silly Little Sparrow

Better After

Centsational Girl

Crafty Sisters

Every Crafty Endeavor

Foreclosure 2 Fabulous

Frugal Home Ideas

Get Your Martha On

How About Orange

infarrantly creative

It's Good to be Queen

Just a Girl

Just Something I Made

Kalyn's Kitchen

Knock Off Wood

Life in the Fun Lane

Life in the Pitts

Little Big Nest

Little Green Notebook

Make It and Love It

Notes from the Heartland

Older And Wisor

One Thrifty Chick

Remodelaholic

Rocky Bella

Russet Street Reno

Shanty2Chic

Starter home to Dream home

The Common Cents Home- Simple and Inexpensive Tips for the home

The DIY Show Off

The Lettered Cottage

The Stories of A to Z

The Vintage Moth..

Thrifty Decor Chick

Home/Fancy – this section of my blogs is reserved for actual professionals. From color stylists to those who focus specifically on clothing or nurseries, this is the place I go to see what the pros are doing.

Blueprint Bliss

Colour me Happy

k.f.d. designs, atlanta georgia

Project Nursery

Pure Style Home

Sanctuary Arts at Home

Young House Love

Interesting People – I have found lots of people online who are prolific writers and document their families, international adoptions, food (hello, Pioneer Woman!), and some who are just sarcastic about life and make me laugh

...ethiopia or bust...

Chris, Erin and Jayce

Clover Lane

CrazyAuntPurl

debra parker | one girl

Enjoying the Small Things

Finding Your Voice

Good Food, Good Friends, Good Life

smitten kitchen

The Moore You Know

The Pioneer Woman - Full RSS Feed

Thy Hand Hath Provided

tylerstanton.com

YouLookFab

Math & Teaching – this is a totally different section where I observe the writings of approximately 20 teachers, mostly fellow math teachers, to learn about their classrooms, teaching theories, struggles, successes, and general classroom hilarity. I’ve learned so much through these other teachers and their willingness to share the good, bad, and ugly of our profession.

A Math Teacher's Notebook

Algebra Funsheets: Creative, fun algebra worksheets

Always Formative

BLogarithm

Concrete Classroom

Continuous Everywhere but Differentiable Nowhere

Divide By Zero

dy/dan

f(t)

GL(s,R)

Math Be Brave

Math Stories

Math Tales from the Spring

Math Teacher Mambo

mathrecreation

Megan Golding

MeTA musings

misscalcul8

Mr. L's Math

Point of Inflection

Questions?

Research in Practice

So You Want To Teach?

Sup Teach?

Sweeney Math

Tales from the Chalkline

Teaching College Math

The Exponential Curve

The Fischbowl

Think Thank Thunk

Transformed Educator

understanding

Virtual Friends

I read a lot of blogs... like, seriously a lot. I'm currently subscribed (via Google Reader... the best thing ever, btw) to 123 blogs and at this moment I have 70 unread entries. Eek. (I’ll share the blogs with you at the bottom of this post because I think I’ll get that request at least a few times. And it will be nice to look back and see what I was reading regularly at this stage in my life!)

Okay… so why am I writing this? There are a lot of talented writers out there and there’s no reason that we shouldn’t be sharing each others’ writings around. Two people in the blogging world stand out to me in an incredible, punch-you-in-the-face kind of way.

I stumbled across an amazing blog post today and felt that I needed to share it. In reading one of my math sites, Ms. Cookie of Math Teacher Mambo, was talking about other blogs she reads outside educational resources. She was specifically talking about the perception of perfection and how shallow and untrue it is when we try to present ourselves that way. She said that she loves “other non-math blogs and check[s] them either daily, or frequently. On one such blog, I came across a link that AGAIN added to my pile of thoughts on this topic. From browsing her other posts, she's an author and teacher and I picture her as seeming to have a ton going for her. Then you scrape a little deeper and see that she's going through this gut-wrenching continuous heartache.”

The specific blog that she linked to and mentioned is called Finding Your Voice by Jennifer Lawler. The post is linked here. Warning – you will cry. Seriously. I know I’m pregnant and dealing with crazy hormones, but it will make you cry. And you’ll need to hug your healthy child immediately.

The second post you must absolutely read asap (with the warning that it, too, will make you cry!) is from one of my favorite blogs – Enjoying the Small Things by Kelle Hampton. Kelle is an amazing photographer whose favorite subjects are her two beautiful daughters. She and her husband were expecting their second child earlier this year and received a surprise when Nella was born. Read her story here and be sure to have some tissues ready.

Why do I love these two posts? Well, both these moms started writing these specific entries to deal with their own personal trauma and to process their thoughts on the surprises life has thrown them. They sent the blogs out with the expectation that some friends would read it, understand their struggles more, and gain some insight into their challenging stories. And what they found is astonishing.

Both wrote follow-up posts with their shock at how the blogging community (yes, we’re a community!) responded wholeheartedly. Jennifer was shocked when her blog received twenty-two thousand hits in one day. ONE DAY. Seriously, think about that. Imagine the outpouring of love she recieved – she blogs about her surprise in a follow-up post but make sure you’ve read the first one to get the full story.

Kelle shared her thanks in a sweet post where she discussed the “focus on life” perspective she’s using (she also talks about her camera, if you’re interested). Weeks later she would be featured in a story on CNN where she took reader questions.

I’m just floored that this weird internet thing could serve as a beacon of hope to so many people who think they’re alone in their struggles. I’m fascinated by the way people reach out to love each other (like the response Jennifer got about carnations for her daughter). Bronce doesn’t really understand the silly blogs I read – and many of them are just silly – but this world is moving along at a fast, virtual pace, and I like keeping up with it and reading about other women… amazing women… people who encourage me to keep writing and documenting and sharing the things that seem silly and personal but can be life-changing to others.

So… to those of you who have a blog. Keep writing! If you don’t… start! It’s so cathartic to put pen to paper fingers to keypad and pour it all out. Embrace the world wide web.

(I’ll put my listing of blogs in another post.)

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

15-weeks

How is it possible I’m 15 weeks along? I returned back to school today (we go  back 2 weeks earlier than the rest of the county to start our inservice) and it was fun to share the news with folks there. I had a few teachers comment that they can’t wait till I get fat… that seems to be one of the stranger (yet common) statements I get about being pregnant. Maybe I should take it as a compliment?

I’m not fat (yet) but I’m definitely showing… enough that I took my lunch break today to go shopping for maternity clothes (thanks, Rodgers family, for the Target giftcards for my birthday!). I scored a few dresses and am excited about them. Maternity clothes are certainly made for some girls more… ahem… blessed in some areas – so it was hard to find some that fit me as well as I hoped. I found some that will work for sure though.

I did some grocery shopping today after work. What can you cook with olives, parmesan cheese, sour cream, and popsicles? Yeah, not much. Let’s blame that on the random cravings of a hormonal and hungry pregnant lady.

So, how big is the little bug now?

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Baby's now the size of a naval orange!
Your growing baby now measures about 4 inches long, crown to rump, and weighs in at about 2 1/2 ounces (
about the size of an apple). She's busy moving amniotic fluid through her nose and upper respiratory tract, which helps the primitive air sacs in her lungs begin to develop. Her legs are growing longer than her arms now, and she can move all of her joints and limbs. Although her eyelids are still fused shut, she can sense light. If you shine a flashlight at your tummy, for instance, she's likely to move away from the beam. There's not much for your baby to taste at this point, but she is forming taste buds. Finally, if you have an ultrasound this week, you may be able to find out whether your baby's a boy or a girl!

I’m comforted that the baby is approaching “normal proportions” – hah! I can’t say enough about how weirded out I get about the strange baby stuff – big heads, eyes on the side of the head, intestines in the umbilical cord (what is up with that??!!), breathing amniotic fluid… it’s strange stuff, for sure.